{"id":6468,"date":"2026-08-21T14:15:16","date_gmt":"2026-08-21T14:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/?p=6468"},"modified":"2026-08-21T14:16:39","modified_gmt":"2026-08-21T14:16:39","slug":"cand-sexul-devine-inca-o-grija-de-pe-lista-ta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/cand-sexul-devine-inca-o-grija-de-pe-lista-ta\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd sexul devine \u00eenc\u0103 o grij\u0103 de pe lista ta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 zile \u00een care lista noastr\u0103 de lucruri de f\u0103cut pare c\u0103 nu se mai termin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Munc\u0103. Cump\u0103r\u0103turi. Mesaje. Facturi. Cur\u0103\u021benie. Program\u0103ri. Familie. R\u0103spunsuri la mailuri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"771\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Confident-Woman-in-Suit-771x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6469\" srcset=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Confident-Woman-in-Suit-771x1024.png 771w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Confident-Woman-in-Suit-768x1019.png 768w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Confident-Woman-in-Suit-226x300.png 226w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Confident-Woman-in-Suit-9x12.png 9w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Confident-Woman-in-Suit-600x796.png 600w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/08\/Confident-Woman-in-Suit.png 904w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 771px) 100vw, 771px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i undeva, printre \u201es\u0103 nu uit p\u00e2inea\u201d \u0219i \u201etrebuie s\u0103 trimit mailul \u0103la\u201d, apare \u0219i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 facem \u0219i noi sex.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sun\u0103 pu\u021bin absurd c\u00e2nd \u00eel spunem cu voce tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar c\u00e2teodat\u0103 exact a\u0219a ajunge s\u0103 se simt\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ca \u00eenc\u0103 un lucru pe care trebuie s\u0103-l bif\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai ales c\u00e2nd \u00eencepem s\u0103 credem c\u0103 o rela\u021bie bun\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 o anumit\u0103 frecven\u021b\u0103, un anumit nivel de pasiune \u0219i, eventual, un orgasm suficient de impresionant \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 poat\u0103 primi nota 10.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i uite a\u0219a, sexul care ar trebui s\u0103 fie despre pl\u0103cere ajunge s\u0103 semene cu un proiect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eC\u00e2nd am f\u0103cut ultima dat\u0103?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eDe ce nu mai facem ca \u00eenainte?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eOare facem suficient?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m ceva nou.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 fiu mai spontan\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuv\u00e2ntul care apare cel mai des este \u201ear trebui\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i poate c\u0103 tocmai aici este problema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu este nimic gre\u0219it \u00een a-\u021bi dori o via\u021b\u0103 intim\u0103 mai bogat\u0103 sau mai satisf\u0103c\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar exist\u0103 o diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00eentre <strong>a-\u021bi dori ceva<\/strong> \u0219i <strong>a sim\u021bi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 performezi la acel ceva<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pl\u0103cerea nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 foarte bine sub presiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E greu s\u0103 fii prezent\u0103 \u00een corpul t\u0103u c\u00e2nd, \u00een acela\u0219i timp, te \u00eentrebi dac\u0103 faci suficient de bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi suficient de bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 dureaz\u0103 suficient.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 partenerul este mul\u021bumit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ai avut orgasm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ar fi trebuit s\u0103 sim\u021bi mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, eventual, dac\u0103 ai timp s\u0103 te \u0219i bucuri \u00eentre toate aceste \u00eentreb\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori ne dorim at\u00e2t de mult s\u0103 avem o via\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103 bun\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t uit\u0103m s\u0103 o mai tr\u0103im.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cencepem s\u0103 o evalu\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 o compar\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 o analiz\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 o transform\u0103m \u00een obiectiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i atunci apare un paradox destul de ironic:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>cu c\u00e2t \u00eencerc\u0103m mai tare s\u0103 avem o experien\u021b\u0103 perfect\u0103, cu at\u00e2t poate deveni mai greu s\u0103 ne relax\u0103m \u00een ea.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 o via\u021b\u0103 intim\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103 nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 bifezi toate lucrurile pe care le-ai citit \u00eentr-un articol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 existe suficient spa\u021biu pentru curiozitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru r\u00e2s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru momente st\u00e2ngace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru \u201enu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 \u00eemi place asta\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru \u201ehai s\u0103 \u00eencerc\u0103m\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru \u201enu azi\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru \u201emai stai pu\u021bin\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i chiar pentru seri \u00een care nu se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 apropierea nu trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna un final.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori poate fi doar o \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un masaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un s\u0103rut mai lung.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O conversa\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau pur \u0219i simplu sentimentul c\u0103 e\u0219ti bine l\u00e2ng\u0103 omul acela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i da, uneori juc\u0103riile sexuale pot aduce varietate, curiozitate \u0219i joac\u0103 \u00een intimitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nici ele nu sunt \u00eenc\u0103 o tem\u0103 de f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai vibratorul perfect, lubrifiantul perfect, tehnica perfect\u0103 \u0219i nici o colec\u021bie \u00eentreag\u0103 de produse ca s\u0103 ai o sexualitate s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi \u00eencepe cu o \u00eentrebare simpl\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eCe mi-ar face mie pl\u0103cere acum?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCe ar trebui s\u0103 fac?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCe fac alte femei?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCe spune internetul c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fac?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eCe \u00eemi face mie bine?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 r\u0103spunsul este sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 este o juc\u0103rie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 este apropiere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 este curiozitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i poate c\u0103, uneori, r\u0103spunsul este:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eNimic. Sunt obosit\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i este \u00een regul\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pl\u0103cerea nu ar trebui s\u0103 fie \u00eenc\u0103 o obliga\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ar trebui s\u0103 fie unul dintre pu\u021binele locuri din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 \u00een care nu trebuie s\u0103 demonstr\u0103m nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:29px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Erosia<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Exist\u0103 zile \u00een care lista noastr\u0103 de lucruri de f\u0103cut pare c\u0103 nu se mai termin\u0103. Munc\u0103. Cump\u0103r\u0103turi. Mesaje. Facturi. Cur\u0103\u021benie. Program\u0103ri. Familie. R\u0103spunsuri la mailuri. \u0218i undeva, printre \u201es\u0103 nu uit p\u00e2inea\u201d \u0219i \u201etrebuie s\u0103 trimit mailul \u0103la\u201d, apare \u0219i: \u201eAr trebui s\u0103 facem \u0219i noi sex.\u201d Sun\u0103 pu\u021bin absurd c\u00e2nd \u00eel spunem cu [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[1181,1204,53,466,1195,1209,1203,50,465,1180,458,464],"class_list":["post-6468","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","tag-autocunoastere","tag-filmele-ne-am-mintit-despre-relatii","tag-intimitate","tag-intimitatea-si-bunastare-emotionalaa","tag-limite-in-intimitate","tag-overthinking-in-relatii","tag-relatii","tag-ritual-senzual","tag-sanatate-mentala","tag-selfcare","tag-senzualitate","tag-sexul-si-sanatatea"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6468","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6468"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6468\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6470,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6468\/revisions\/6470"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6468"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6468"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6468"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}