{"id":6494,"date":"2026-09-15T15:17:42","date_gmt":"2026-09-15T15:17:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/?p=6494"},"modified":"2026-09-15T15:22:08","modified_gmt":"2026-09-15T15:22:08","slug":"cand-simti-ca-nu-ai-chef-de-sex-dar-simti-ca-ar-trebui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/cand-simti-ca-nu-ai-chef-de-sex-dar-simti-ca-ar-trebui\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd nu ai chef de sex, dar sim\u021bi c\u0103 \u201ear trebui\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Despre dorin\u021b\u0103, presiune \u0219i libertatea de a nu transforma sexualitatea \u00eentr-o obliga\u021bie<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 zile \u00een care nu ai chef de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat ceva dramatic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti atras\u0103 de nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 ai o problem\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pur \u0219i simplu nu ai chef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"847\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Romantic-groom-kiss-on-brides-cheek-in-golden-light-847x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6497\" srcset=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Romantic-groom-kiss-on-brides-cheek-in-golden-light-847x1024.png 847w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Romantic-groom-kiss-on-brides-cheek-in-golden-light-248x300.png 248w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Romantic-groom-kiss-on-brides-cheek-in-golden-light-10x12.png 10w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Romantic-groom-kiss-on-brides-cheek-in-golden-light-599x725.png 599w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Romantic-groom-kiss-on-brides-cheek-in-golden-light-768x929.png 768w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Romantic-groom-kiss-on-brides-cheek-in-golden-light.png 992w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 847px) 100vw, 847px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai avut o zi lung\u0103, ai r\u0103spuns la prea multe mesaje, ai muncit, ai f\u0103cut cump\u0103r\u0103turi, ai rezolvat lucruri \u0219i, la final, tot ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti este s\u0103 faci un du\u0219, s\u0103 te bagi \u00een pat \u0219i s\u0103 nu mai fii responsabil\u0103 pentru nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nici m\u0103car pentru propria ta sexualitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i totu\u0219i, undeva \u00een fundal apare g\u00e2ndul:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOare ar trebui s\u0103 fac ceva?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai citit c\u0103 masturbarea te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 te relaxezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai cump\u0103rat o juc\u0103rie pe care \u00eenc\u0103 nu ai \u00eencercat-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti c\u0103, fiind singur\u0103, ar trebui s\u0103 profi\u021bi de timpul acesta pentru a te descoperi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai impresia c\u0103 o femeie conectat\u0103 la sexualitatea ei trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 mereu chef, curiozitate \u0219i energie pentru pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar sexualitatea nu este \u00eenc\u0103 o sarcin\u0103 pe lista de lucruri de f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu trebuie s\u0103 transform\u0103m libertatea sexual\u0103 \u00eentr-o nou\u0103 form\u0103 de presiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai chef doar pentru c\u0103 po\u021bi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Faptul c\u0103 ai timp, intimitate sau acces la produse de sexual wellness nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 le folose\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai o sear\u0103 liber\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti nimic sexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 fii singur\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 te masturbezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai o juc\u0103rie sexual\u0103 \u00een sertar \u0219i s\u0103 nu o folose\u0219ti s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 fii curioas\u0103 \u00een general, dar f\u0103r\u0103 chef \u00een momentul respectiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i este \u00een regul\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori confund\u0103m disponibilitatea cu dorin\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 \u201ea\u0219 putea\u201d nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 automat \u201evreau\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0219a cum faptul c\u0103 ai frigiderul plin nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci imediat, faptul c\u0103 ai intimitate nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ai o experien\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 la comand\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne-ar fi mult mai u\u0219or dac\u0103 dorin\u021ba ar ap\u0103rea dup\u0103 un program.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Luni, miercuri \u0219i vineri: chef de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mar\u021bi: explorare personal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Weekend: intimitate \u0219i relaxare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar corpul nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 ca o aplica\u021bie de productivitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba poate fi influen\u021bat\u0103 de stres, oboseal\u0103, somn, schimb\u0103ri hormonale, anxietate, imagine corporal\u0103, medicamente, rela\u021bia cu propriul corp sau pur \u0219i simplu de ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori ai chef foarte spontan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alteori apare doar dup\u0103 ce te sim\u021bi relaxat\u0103, \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i prezent\u0103 \u00een propriul corp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar uneori nu apare deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 o for\u021bezi ca s\u0103 dovede\u0219ti c\u0103 e\u0219ti s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, feminin\u0103 sau \u201e\u00een contact cu tine\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Presiunea poate s\u0103 omoare exact pl\u0103cerea pe care \u00eencerci s\u0103 o ob\u021bii<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd \u00eencepi s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 am chef.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerc juc\u0103ria.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 relaxez.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 cunosc mai bine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">experien\u021ba nu mai este despre pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Devine despre performan\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cencepi s\u0103 te observi din exterior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare fac bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare dureaz\u0103 prea mult?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare ar trebui s\u0103 simt ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare de ce nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, dintr-o dat\u0103, nu mai e\u0219ti prezent\u0103 \u00een corpul t\u0103u. E\u0219ti \u00eentr-o \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 de evaluare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexualitatea are nevoie de spa\u021biu, nu de supraveghere permanent\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi face este s\u0103 renun\u021bi la ideea c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu orice lips\u0103 de chef trebuie rezolvat\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 o tendin\u021b\u0103 de a trata orice schimbare a dorin\u021bei ca pe o problem\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ai chef, este bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 nu ai chef, trebuie s\u0103 afl\u0103m de ce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 uneori exist\u0103 un motiv important \u0219i merit\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel explorezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar alteori nu exist\u0103 nimic de reparat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 ai nevoie de odihn\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 mintea ta este ocupat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 ai trecut printr-o perioad\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103 intens\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 sexualitatea nu este prioritatea ta acum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu este nevoie s\u0103 transformi fiecare perioad\u0103 lini\u0219tit\u0103 \u00eentr-un proiect de analiz\u0103 personal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba poate s\u0103 fluctueze f\u0103r\u0103 ca tu s\u0103 fi pierdut ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A nu avea chef nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti sexual\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 una dintre cele mai mari confuzii este aceea c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 sexual\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie mereu interesat\u0103 de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar sexualitatea nu se m\u0103soar\u0103 prin frecven\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e\u0219ti mai feminin\u0103 pentru c\u0103 ai chef des.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e\u0219ti mai conectat\u0103 la corpul t\u0103u pentru c\u0103 ai multe experien\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e\u0219ti mai pu\u021bin sexual\u0103 dac\u0103 treci printr-o perioad\u0103 \u00een care nu te intereseaz\u0103 deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi fi o femeie senzual\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu ai chef de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac\u0103 flirtul, dar s\u0103 nu vrei \u00eent\u00e2lniri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai fantezii, dar s\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 le transformi \u00een realitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te sim\u021bi bine \u00een corpul t\u0103u \u0219i s\u0103 nu ai nevoie de nicio experien\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103 \u00een ziua respectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu exist\u0103 un singur mod corect de a fi sexual\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori ai nevoie de apropiere, nu de sex<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai ales atunci c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti singur\u0103, poate fi u\u0219or s\u0103 confunzi diferite tipuri de nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate \u00ee\u021bi lipse\u0219te atingerea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate \u00ee\u021bi lipse\u0219te s\u0103 fii \u021binut\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie de tandre\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei s\u0103 te sim\u021bi dorit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti cu cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau poate e\u0219ti pur \u0219i simplu obosit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toate aceste nevoi pot fi reale, dar nu toate au nevoie de o solu\u021bie sexual\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, ceea ce te ajut\u0103 este o conversa\u021bie sincer\u0103 cu o prieten\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O plimbare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un masaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O sear\u0103 lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 te la\u0219i \u00een pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 folose\u0219ti sexul pentru a rezolva fiecare form\u0103 de disconfort emo\u021bional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti s\u0103 ai mai mult chef?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci po\u021bi \u00eencepe prin a observa, nu prin a te for\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum dormi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2t stres ai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te sim\u021bi confortabil \u00een corpul t\u0103u?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai suficient timp pentru tine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te sim\u021bi \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai parte de intimitate sau doar de momente \u00een care \u00eencerci s\u0103 strecori pl\u0103cerea printre alte obliga\u021bii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori dorin\u021ba nu are nevoie de un stimulent nou, ci de mai pu\u021bin\u0103 presiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie de un spa\u021biu \u00een care s\u0103 nu fii eficient\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie s\u0103 nu te gr\u0103be\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi s\u0103 explorezi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 urm\u0103re\u0219ti un rezultat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dac\u0103 lipsa dorin\u021bei persist\u0103 \u0219i te \u00eengrijoreaz\u0103, poate fi util s\u0103 discu\u021bi cu un medic sau cu un specialist. Nu pentru c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii \u201ereparat\u0103\u201d, ci pentru c\u0103 meri\u021bi s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pl\u0103cerea nu trebuie s\u0103 fie productiv\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o cultur\u0103 \u00een care aproape totul trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 un rezultat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sportul trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi schimbe corpul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Odihna trebuie s\u0103 te fac\u0103 mai eficient\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hobby-urile trebuie s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 evoluezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar sexualitatea trebuie s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 te cuno\u0219ti, s\u0103 te relaxezi, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021be\u0219ti rela\u021bia sau s\u0103 devii mai \u00eencrez\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar poate c\u0103 uneori pl\u0103cerea nu trebuie s\u0103 produc\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate s\u0103 fie doar pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 concluzie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 progres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 o versiune \u201emai bun\u0103\u201d a ta la final.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i poate c\u0103 acesta este unul dintre cele mai eliberatoare lucruri pe care le putem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba despre corp:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">nu tot ceea ce tr\u0103im trebuie s\u0103 devin\u0103 o lec\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 spui \u201enu acum\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chiar \u0219i \u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 \u00eencepi ceva \u0219i s\u0103 te opre\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 fii curioas\u0103 \u0219i apoi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pierzi interesul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cumperi o juc\u0103rie \u0219i s\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 nu este pentru tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 ai chef \u00eentr-o zi \u0219i deloc \u00een urm\u0103toarea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi schimbi preferin\u021bele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 nu ai explica\u021bia perfect\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu acum\u201d este un r\u0103spuns complet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 fie urmat de o scuz\u0103, de o analiz\u0103 sau de o promisiune c\u0103 vei \u00eencerca mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu transforma sexualitatea \u00eentr-o obliga\u021bie de a fi bine<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, chiar \u0219i mesajele despre self-care pot deveni obositoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 te iube\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 te explorezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cuno\u0219ti corpul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 ai grij\u0103 de tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi activezi energia feminin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi recape\u021bi dorin\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama, ajungem s\u0103 sim\u021bim c\u0103 nici m\u0103car relaxarea nu o facem corect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu trebuie s\u0103 fii permanent conectat\u0103 la corpul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai o rela\u021bie perfect\u0103 cu el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi avea zile \u00een care te sim\u021bi senzual\u0103 \u0219i zile \u00een care nu vrei dec\u00e2t s\u0103 por\u021bi haine largi \u0219i s\u0103 nu fii atins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ambele fac parte din tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai chef de sex doar pentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti singur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 folose\u0219ti o juc\u0103rie doar pentru c\u0103 o ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 transformi masturbarea \u00eentr-o rutin\u0103 obligatorie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 e\u0219ti deschis\u0103, curioas\u0103 sau conectat\u0103 la sexualitatea ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai chef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 nu ai chef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 nu \u0219tii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te r\u0103zg\u00e2nde\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar toate acestea nu spun nimic r\u0103u despre tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexualitatea nu este un examen pe care trebuie s\u0103 \u00eel treci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este un spa\u021biu \u00een care ar trebui s\u0103 existe libertate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar libertatea include \u0219i dreptul de a spune:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAst\u0103zi nu vreau nimic.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 vin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 presiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 explica\u021bii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Erosia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despre dorin\u021b\u0103, presiune \u0219i libertatea de a nu transforma sexualitatea \u00eentr-o obliga\u021bie Exist\u0103 zile \u00een care nu ai chef de sex. Nu pentru c\u0103 s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat ceva dramatic. Nu pentru c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti atras\u0103 de nimeni. Nu pentru c\u0103 ai o problem\u0103. Pur \u0219i simplu nu ai chef. Ai avut o zi lung\u0103, ai r\u0103spuns [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[1181,1221,1204,53,466,1195,1220,1209,1203,50,465,1180,458,464],"class_list":["post-6494","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","tag-autocunoastere","tag-cum-alegem-lubrifiantul","tag-filmele-ne-am-mintit-despre-relatii","tag-intimitate","tag-intimitatea-si-bunastare-emotionalaa","tag-limite-in-intimitate","tag-lubrifiantul","tag-overthinking-in-relatii","tag-relatii","tag-ritual-senzual","tag-sanatate-mentala","tag-selfcare","tag-senzualitate","tag-sexul-si-sanatatea"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6494","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6494"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6494\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6499,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6494\/revisions\/6499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6494"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6494"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6494"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}