{"id":6501,"date":"2026-09-19T08:31:05","date_gmt":"2026-09-19T08:31:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/?p=6501"},"modified":"2026-09-19T08:37:49","modified_gmt":"2026-09-19T08:37:49","slug":"de-ce-uneori-ne-plece-sa-fim-dorite-mai-mult-decat-ne-place-sexul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/de-ce-uneori-ne-plece-sa-fim-dorite-mai-mult-decat-ne-place-sexul\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce uneori ne place s\u0103 fim dorite mai mult dec\u00e2t ne place sexul"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><strong>Despre validare, aten\u021bie, flirt \u0219i diferen\u021ba dintre \u201e\u00eel vreau pe el\u201d \u0219i \u201e\u00eemi place s\u0103 m\u0103 simt dorit\u0103\u201d<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai avut o zi lung\u0103, ai r\u0103spuns la prea multe mesaje, ai muncit, ai f\u0103cut cump\u0103r\u0103turi, ai rezolvat lucruri \u0219i, la final, tot ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti este s\u0103 faci un du\u0219, s\u0103 te bagi \u00een pat \u0219i s\u0103 nu mai fii responsabil\u0103 pentru nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"771\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Minimalist-Woman-Portrait-771x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Minimalist-Woman-Portrait-771x1024.png 771w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Minimalist-Woman-Portrait-226x300.png 226w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Minimalist-Woman-Portrait-9x12.png 9w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Minimalist-Woman-Portrait-768x1019.png 768w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Minimalist-Woman-Portrait-600x796.png 600w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/Minimalist-Woman-Portrait.png 904w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 771px) 100vw, 771px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nici m\u0103car pentru propria ta sexualitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i totu\u0219i, undeva \u00een fundal apare g\u00e2ndul:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOare ar trebui s\u0103 fac ceva?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai citit c\u0103 masturbarea te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 te relaxezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai cump\u0103rat o juc\u0103rie pe care \u00eenc\u0103 nu ai \u00eencercat-o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti c\u0103, fiind singur\u0103, ar trebui s\u0103 profi\u021bi de timpul acesta pentru a te descoperi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai impresia c\u0103 o femeie conectat\u0103 la sexualitatea ei trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 mereu chef, curiozitate \u0219i energie pentru pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar sexualitatea nu este \u00eenc\u0103 o sarcin\u0103 pe lista de lucruri de f\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu trebuie s\u0103 transform\u0103m libertatea sexual\u0103 \u00eentr-o nou\u0103 form\u0103 de presiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai chef doar pentru c\u0103 po\u021bi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Faptul c\u0103 ai timp, intimitate sau acces la produse de sexual wellness nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 le folose\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai o sear\u0103 liber\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti nimic sexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 fii singur\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu sim\u021bi nevoia s\u0103 te masturbezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai o juc\u0103rie sexual\u0103 \u00een sertar \u0219i s\u0103 nu o folose\u0219ti s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni \u00eentregi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 fii curioas\u0103 \u00een general, dar f\u0103r\u0103 chef \u00een momentul respectiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i este \u00een regul\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori confund\u0103m disponibilitatea cu dorin\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 \u201ea\u0219 putea\u201d nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 automat \u201evreau\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0219a cum faptul c\u0103 ai frigiderul plin nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103n\u00e2nci imediat, faptul c\u0103 ai intimitate nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ai o experien\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 la comand\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne-ar fi mult mai u\u0219or dac\u0103 dorin\u021ba ar ap\u0103rea dup\u0103 un program.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Luni, miercuri \u0219i vineri: chef de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mar\u021bi: explorare personal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Weekend: intimitate \u0219i relaxare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar corpul nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 ca o aplica\u021bie de productivitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba poate fi influen\u021bat\u0103 de stres, oboseal\u0103, somn, schimb\u0103ri hormonale, anxietate, imagine corporal\u0103, medicamente, rela\u021bia cu propriul corp sau pur \u0219i simplu de ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori ai chef foarte spontan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alteori apare doar dup\u0103 ce te sim\u021bi relaxat\u0103, \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i prezent\u0103 \u00een propriul corp.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar uneori nu apare deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 o for\u021bezi ca s\u0103 dovede\u0219ti c\u0103 e\u0219ti s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103, feminin\u0103 sau \u201e\u00een contact cu tine\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Presiunea poate s\u0103 omoare exact pl\u0103cerea pe care \u00eencerci s\u0103 o ob\u021bii<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd \u00eencepi s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 am chef.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 \u00eencerc juc\u0103ria.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 relaxez.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAr trebui s\u0103 m\u0103 cunosc mai bine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">experien\u021ba nu mai este despre pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Devine despre performan\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cencepi s\u0103 te observi din exterior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare fac bine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare dureaz\u0103 prea mult?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare ar trebui s\u0103 simt ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Oare de ce nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, dintr-o dat\u0103, nu mai e\u0219ti prezent\u0103 \u00een corpul t\u0103u. E\u0219ti \u00eentr-o \u0219edin\u021b\u0103 de evaluare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexualitatea are nevoie de spa\u021biu, nu de supraveghere permanent\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi face este s\u0103 renun\u021bi la ideea c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu orice lips\u0103 de chef trebuie rezolvat\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 o tendin\u021b\u0103 de a trata orice schimbare a dorin\u021bei ca pe o problem\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ai chef, este bine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 nu ai chef, trebuie s\u0103 afl\u0103m de ce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 uneori exist\u0103 un motiv important \u0219i merit\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel explorezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar alteori nu exist\u0103 nimic de reparat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 ai nevoie de odihn\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 mintea ta este ocupat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 ai trecut printr-o perioad\u0103 emo\u021bional\u0103 intens\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 sexualitatea nu este prioritatea ta acum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu este nevoie s\u0103 transformi fiecare perioad\u0103 lini\u0219tit\u0103 \u00eentr-un proiect de analiz\u0103 personal\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba poate s\u0103 fluctueze f\u0103r\u0103 ca tu s\u0103 fi pierdut ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A nu avea chef nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti sexual\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 una dintre cele mai mari confuzii este aceea c\u0103 o persoan\u0103 sexual\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fie mereu interesat\u0103 de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar sexualitatea nu se m\u0103soar\u0103 prin frecven\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e\u0219ti mai feminin\u0103 pentru c\u0103 ai chef des.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e\u0219ti mai conectat\u0103 la corpul t\u0103u pentru c\u0103 ai multe experien\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu e\u0219ti mai pu\u021bin sexual\u0103 dac\u0103 treci printr-o perioad\u0103 \u00een care nu te intereseaz\u0103 deloc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi fi o femeie senzual\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu ai chef de sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi plac\u0103 flirtul, dar s\u0103 nu vrei \u00eent\u00e2lniri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai fantezii, dar s\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 le transformi \u00een realitate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te sim\u021bi bine \u00een corpul t\u0103u \u0219i s\u0103 nu ai nevoie de nicio experien\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103 \u00een ziua respectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu exist\u0103 un singur mod corect de a fi sexual\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori ai nevoie de apropiere, nu de sex<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mai ales atunci c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti singur\u0103, poate fi u\u0219or s\u0103 confunzi diferite tipuri de nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate \u00ee\u021bi lipse\u0219te atingerea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate \u00ee\u021bi lipse\u0219te s\u0103 fii \u021binut\u0103 \u00een bra\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie de tandre\u021be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei s\u0103 te sim\u021bi dorit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti cu cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau poate e\u0219ti pur \u0219i simplu obosit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toate aceste nevoi pot fi reale, dar nu toate au nevoie de o solu\u021bie sexual\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, ceea ce te ajut\u0103 este o conversa\u021bie sincer\u0103 cu o prieten\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O plimbare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un masaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O sear\u0103 lini\u0219tit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O \u00eembr\u0103\u021bi\u0219are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau pur \u0219i simplu s\u0103 te la\u0219i \u00een pace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 folose\u0219ti sexul pentru a rezolva fiecare form\u0103 de disconfort emo\u021bional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti s\u0103 ai mai mult chef?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atunci po\u021bi \u00eencepe prin a observa, nu prin a te for\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cum dormi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2t stres ai?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te sim\u021bi confortabil \u00een corpul t\u0103u?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai suficient timp pentru tine?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te sim\u021bi \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai parte de intimitate sau doar de momente \u00een care \u00eencerci s\u0103 strecori pl\u0103cerea printre alte obliga\u021bii?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori dorin\u021ba nu are nevoie de un stimulent nou, ci de mai pu\u021bin\u0103 presiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie de un spa\u021biu \u00een care s\u0103 nu fii eficient\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie s\u0103 nu te gr\u0103be\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai nevoie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi s\u0103 explorezi f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 urm\u0103re\u0219ti un rezultat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dac\u0103 lipsa dorin\u021bei persist\u0103 \u0219i te \u00eengrijoreaz\u0103, poate fi util s\u0103 discu\u021bi cu un medic sau cu un specialist. Nu pentru c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 fii \u201ereparat\u0103\u201d, ci pentru c\u0103 meri\u021bi s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pl\u0103cerea nu trebuie s\u0103 fie productiv\u0103<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o cultur\u0103 \u00een care aproape totul trebuie s\u0103 aib\u0103 un rezultat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sportul trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi schimbe corpul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Odihna trebuie s\u0103 te fac\u0103 mai eficient\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hobby-urile trebuie s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 evoluezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar sexualitatea trebuie s\u0103 te ajute s\u0103 te cuno\u0219ti, s\u0103 te relaxezi, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021be\u0219ti rela\u021bia sau s\u0103 devii mai \u00eencrez\u0103toare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar poate c\u0103 uneori pl\u0103cerea nu trebuie s\u0103 produc\u0103 nimic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate s\u0103 fie doar pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 concluzie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 progres.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 o versiune \u201emai bun\u0103\u201d a ta la final.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i poate c\u0103 acesta este unul dintre cele mai eliberatoare lucruri pe care le putem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba despre corp:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">nu tot ceea ce tr\u0103im trebuie s\u0103 devin\u0103 o lec\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 spui \u201enu acum\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chiar \u0219i \u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 \u00eencepi ceva \u0219i s\u0103 te opre\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 fii curioas\u0103 \u0219i apoi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pierzi interesul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cumperi o juc\u0103rie \u0219i s\u0103 descoperi c\u0103 nu este pentru tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 ai chef \u00eentr-o zi \u0219i deloc \u00een urm\u0103toarea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi schimbi preferin\u021bele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai voie s\u0103 nu ai explica\u021bia perfect\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eNu acum\u201d este un r\u0103spuns complet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 fie urmat de o scuz\u0103, de o analiz\u0103 sau de o promisiune c\u0103 vei \u00eencerca mai t\u00e2rziu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu transforma sexualitatea \u00eentr-o obliga\u021bie de a fi bine<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, chiar \u0219i mesajele despre self-care pot deveni obositoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 te iube\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 te explorezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi cuno\u0219ti corpul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 ai grij\u0103 de tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi activezi energia feminin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trebuie s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi recape\u021bi dorin\u021ba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama, ajungem s\u0103 sim\u021bim c\u0103 nici m\u0103car relaxarea nu o facem corect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu trebuie s\u0103 fii permanent conectat\u0103 la corpul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai o rela\u021bie perfect\u0103 cu el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi avea zile \u00een care te sim\u021bi senzual\u0103 \u0219i zile \u00een care nu vrei dec\u00e2t s\u0103 por\u021bi haine largi \u0219i s\u0103 nu fii atins\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ambele fac parte din tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 ai chef de sex doar pentru c\u0103 e\u0219ti singur\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 folose\u0219ti o juc\u0103rie doar pentru c\u0103 o ai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 transformi masturbarea \u00eentr-o rutin\u0103 obligatorie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 demonstrezi c\u0103 e\u0219ti deschis\u0103, curioas\u0103 sau conectat\u0103 la sexualitatea ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai chef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 nu ai chef.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 nu \u0219tii.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te r\u0103zg\u00e2nde\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar toate acestea nu spun nimic r\u0103u despre tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexualitatea nu este un examen pe care trebuie s\u0103 \u00eel treci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este un spa\u021biu \u00een care ar trebui s\u0103 existe libertate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar libertatea include \u0219i dreptul de a spune:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAst\u0103zi nu vreau nimic.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 vin\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 presiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">F\u0103r\u0103 Exist\u0103 o \u00eentrebare pe care ne-o punem mai rar dec\u00e2t ar trebui: <strong>\u00eemi place persoana asta sau \u00eemi place felul \u00een care m\u0103 simt c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te s\u0103 m\u0103 aib\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 cele dou\u0103 senza\u021bii pot sem\u0103na foarte mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un mesaj la care \u00ee\u021bi tresare telefonul. O privire care dureaz\u0103 pu\u021bin mai mult. Cineva care \u00ee\u021bi spune c\u0103 e\u0219ti frumoas\u0103, c\u0103 \u00eel atragi, c\u0103 nu se poate concentra c\u00e2nd e\u0219ti aproape. Un compliment spus exact \u00een momentul \u00een care aveai nevoie s\u0103-l auzi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, dintr-o dat\u0103, te sim\u021bi mai sexy. Mai feminin\u0103. Mai interesant\u0103. Mai vie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate nici m\u0103car nu vrei s\u0103 faci sex cu persoana respectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar \u00ee\u021bi place foarte mult c\u0103 <strong>te vrea<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu, asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 e ceva \u00een neregul\u0103 cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba de a fi dorit\u0103 face parte din felul \u00een care func\u021bion\u0103m ca oameni. Suntem sensibili la aten\u021bie, la apropiere, la confirmarea faptului c\u0103 suntem v\u0103zu\u021bi \u0219i aprecia\u021bi. Iar \u00een zona sexual\u0103, validarea poate fi \u0219i mai intens\u0103, pentru c\u0103 atinge una dintre \u00eentreb\u0103rile noastre cele mai vulnerabile: <em>\u201eSunt atr\u0103g\u0103toare?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problema apare atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eencepem s\u0103 confund\u0103m r\u0103spunsul la aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare cu r\u0103spunsul la o alta:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cemi doresc cu adev\u0103rat aceast\u0103 persoan\u0103?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>S\u0103 fii dorit\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 dore\u0219ti sunt dou\u0103 lucruri diferite<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sun\u0103 evident. \u00cen realitate, nu este \u00eentotdeauna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te bucuri enorm c\u0103 cineva te dore\u0219te f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel dore\u0219ti sexual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 fii flatat\u0103 de un mesaj f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrei o \u00eent\u00e2lnire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te sim\u021bi foarte sexy \u00eentr-o rochie pentru c\u0103 observi privirile din jur, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 pleci acas\u0103 cu nimeni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i po\u021bi s\u0103 fii complet atras\u0103 de cineva, dar s\u0103 nu vrei s\u0103 faci sex cu el \u00een acel moment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba sexual\u0103 este orientat\u0103 c\u0103tre o persoan\u0103, o experien\u021b\u0103, o senza\u021bie sau o apropiere. Nevoia de validare este, \u00een schimb, legat\u0103 mai mult de felul \u00een care ne sim\u021bim noi \u00een raport cu propria imagine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar uneori, ceea ce pare a fi dorin\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103 este, de fapt, o dorin\u021b\u0103 foarte puternic\u0103 de confirmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eM\u0103 vrea.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eM\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219te sexy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u00cenc\u0103 pot s\u0103 provoc asta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eSunt suficient de interesant\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAm ceva ce \u00ee\u0219i dore\u0219te.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, pentru c\u00e2teva minute sau c\u00e2teva ore, aceste lucruri pot fi foarte reconfortante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>De ce ne place at\u00e2t de mult s\u0103 fim dorite?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 a fi dorit\u0103 poate func\u021biona ca o oglind\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu una perfect\u0103 \u0219i nici una \u00een care ar trebui s\u0103 ne c\u0103ut\u0103m valoarea, dar o oglind\u0103 care ne spune: <em>e\u0219ti v\u0103zut\u0103.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar pentru multe femei, aceast\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 nu a fost \u00eentotdeauna simpl\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Am crescut \u00eentr-o cultur\u0103 \u00een care corpul feminin este privit permanent, dar \u00een care femeile sunt \u00eenv\u0103\u021bate simultan s\u0103 nu par\u0103 \u201eprea disponibile\u201d. S\u0103 fie atr\u0103g\u0103toare, dar nu prea con\u0219tiente de propria sexualitate. S\u0103 fie feminine, dar s\u0103 nu par\u0103 c\u0103 au nevoie de aten\u021bie. S\u0103 primeasc\u0103 un compliment, dar s\u0103 nu par\u0103 c\u0103 se bucur\u0103 prea mult de el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u0219a c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd cineva vine \u0219i spune, direct sau indirect, \u201ete vreau\u201d, poate exista ceva foarte seduc\u0103tor \u00een aceast\u0103 confirmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu neap\u0103rat pentru c\u0103 vrem sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci pentru c\u0103, pentru o clip\u0103, nu mai trebuie s\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m dac\u0103 suntem suficient de frumoase.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Alt\u0103 persoan\u0103 pare s\u0103 fi r\u0103spuns deja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>De aici apare \u0219i capcana valid\u0103rii<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problema nu este s\u0103-\u021bi plac\u0103 aten\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Problema apare atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eencepi s\u0103 ai nevoie de ea ca s\u0103 te sim\u021bi bine cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i atunci po\u021bi ajunge s\u0103 cau\u021bi constant priviri, mesaje, like-uri, flirturi sau confirm\u0103ri.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti neap\u0103rat o experien\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103, ci pentru c\u0103 senza\u021bia de a fi dorit\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi regleaz\u0103 pentru c\u00e2teva momente starea de spirit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai avut o zi proast\u0103? Un mesaj de la cineva care te dore\u0219te te poate ridica.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te sim\u021bi nesigur\u0103 \u00een corpul t\u0103u? Un compliment sexual poate func\u021biona ca o mic\u0103 injec\u021bie de \u00eencredere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ai trecut printr-o desp\u0103r\u021bire? Faptul c\u0103 cineva nou te g\u0103se\u0219te atr\u0103g\u0103toare poate face ca pierderea s\u0103 doar\u0103 pu\u021bin mai pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i aici lucrurile devin interesante.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 uneori nu ne \u00eendr\u0103gostim de persoana care ne ofer\u0103 aten\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne ata\u0219\u0103m de <strong>versiunea noastr\u0103 care exist\u0103 \u00een prezen\u021ba ei<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Versiunea care se simte frumoas\u0103. Dorit\u0103. Feminin\u0103. Puternic\u0103. Sexy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cemi place de el\u201d poate \u00eensemna, uneori, \u201e\u00eemi place cine sunt c\u00e2nd m\u0103 dore\u0219te\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aceasta este una dintre cele mai importante diferen\u021be pe care le putem observa \u00een propria via\u021b\u0103 sexual\u0103 \u0219i afectiv\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Imagineaz\u0103-\u021bi c\u0103 un b\u0103rbat \u00ee\u021bi trimite mesaje constant. \u00ce\u021bi spune c\u0103 e\u0219ti superb\u0103. Face glume cu sub\u00een\u021beles. Te prive\u0219te \u00eentr-un anumit fel. \u00ce\u021bi spune c\u0103 \u00eel atragi foarte tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i \u00eencepi s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar dac\u0103 ai elimina aten\u021bia lui din ecua\u021bie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 nu \u021bi-ar mai scrie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 nu \u021bi-ar mai spune c\u0103 e\u0219ti sexy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ar disp\u0103rea pentru c\u00e2teva zile \u0219i ai r\u0103m\u00e2ne doar cu \u00eentrebarea: <em>\u201eCe \u00eemi place mie, de fapt, la omul acesta?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">R\u0103spunsul poate fi foarte diferit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate descoperi c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place umorul lui, inteligen\u021ba lui, felul \u00een care te sim\u021bi \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 cu el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau poate descoperi c\u0103 cea mai mare parte din atrac\u021bie venea din faptul c\u0103 <strong>el te f\u0103cea s\u0103 te sim\u021bi dorit\u0103<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i ambele variante sunt perfect posibile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nu este nimic gre\u0219it \u00een a te bucura de flirt<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 transform\u0103m orice flirt \u00eentr-o problem\u0103 psihologic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Flirtul poate fi pur \u0219i simplu distractiv.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate fi un joc \u00eentre doi oameni. Poate fi o form\u0103 de exprimare a sexualit\u0103\u021bii. Poate s\u0103-\u021bi aminteasc\u0103 faptul c\u0103 ai o latur\u0103 senzual\u0103 \u0219i juc\u0103u\u0219\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu orice compliment trebuie analizat p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0219i pierde farmecul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori cineva te place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tu observi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi place c\u0103 te place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Z\u00e2mbe\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i at\u00e2t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Devine important s\u0103 ne uit\u0103m mai atent doar atunci c\u00e2nd observ\u0103m un tipar: c\u00e2nd accept\u0103m \u00eent\u00e2lniri pe care nu ni le dorim, c\u00e2nd \u00eentre\u021binem conversa\u021bii care ne consum\u0103, c\u00e2nd intr\u0103m \u00een situa\u021bii sexuale doar pentru confirmare sau c\u00e2nd r\u0103m\u00e2nem ata\u0219ate de oameni care nu ne ofer\u0103 ceea ce avem nevoie doar pentru c\u0103 ne ofer\u0103 constant sentimentul c\u0103 suntem dorite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u00e2nd \u201em\u0103 vrea\u201d devine mai important dec\u00e2t \u201e\u00eel vreau?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aici merit\u0103 s\u0103 ne oprim pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 exist\u0103 o diferen\u021b\u0103 enorm\u0103 \u00eentre cele dou\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eM\u0103 vrea\u201d \u00ee\u021bi spune ceva despre dorin\u021ba lui.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u00cel vreau\u201d \u00ee\u021bi spune ceva despre a ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Prima nu o poate \u00eenlocui pe a doua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i totu\u0219i, \u00een momentele \u00een care suntem nesigure, singure, dup\u0103 o desp\u0103r\u021bire sau pur \u0219i simplu avem nevoie s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim atractive, putem ajunge s\u0103 le confund\u0103m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Accept\u0103m o \u00eent\u00e2lnire pentru c\u0103 ne place aten\u021bia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Continu\u0103m o conversa\u021bie sexual\u0103 pentru c\u0103 ne place reac\u021bia celuilalt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne \u00eentoarcem la cineva despre care \u0219tim c\u0103 nu ne face bine pentru c\u0103 \u0219tim c\u0103 ne dore\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sau facem sex nu pentru c\u0103 trupul nostru spune \u201eda\u201d, ci pentru c\u0103 ego-ul nostru spune: <strong>\u201e\u00cen sf\u00e2r\u0219it, cineva m\u0103 vrea.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar dup\u0103 aceea putem r\u0103m\u00e2ne cu senza\u021bia ciudat\u0103 c\u0103 am primit exact ceea ce credeam c\u0103 ne lipse\u0219te \u0219i totu\u0219i ceva nu s-a umplut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 poate nu sexul lipsea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Uneori, ceea ce vrem este s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim sexy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i acesta este un lucru important de recunoscut f\u0103r\u0103 ru\u0219ine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai chef s\u0103 por\u021bi o rochie \u00een care te sim\u021bi extraordinar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei s\u0103 faci o fotografie \u00een care \u00ee\u021bi place foarte mult cum ar\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate ai chef s\u0103 flirtezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei s\u0103 auzi c\u0103 e\u0219ti frumoas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei s\u0103 te sim\u021bi senzual\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ajungi \u00een pat cu cineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sexualitatea nu \u00eencepe \u0219i nu se termin\u0103 cu sexul.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 o parte din ea care \u021bine de felul \u00een care locuie\u0219ti \u00een propriul corp. De felul \u00een care \u00eel prive\u0219ti. De c\u00e2t de confortabil\u0103 e\u0219ti cu faptul c\u0103 po\u021bi fi senzual\u0103. De pl\u0103cerea de a te sim\u021bi feminin\u0103, erotic\u0103, juc\u0103u\u0219\u0103 sau pur \u0219i simplu bine \u00een pielea ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i nu trebuie s\u0103 transformi fiecare astfel de stare \u00eentr-o interac\u021biune sexual\u0103 cu altcineva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te bucuri de ea pur \u0219i simplu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Iar aici apare o \u00eentrebare foarte bun\u0103<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Data viitoare c\u00e2nd sim\u021bi acel impuls foarte puternic de a c\u0103uta aten\u021bia cuiva, \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cel vreau pe omul acesta sau vreau senza\u021bia pe care mi-o d\u0103 faptul c\u0103 m\u0103 vrea?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi perfect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nici s\u0103 renun\u021bi la flirt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nici s\u0103 devii brusc complet independent\u0103 de validarea celorlal\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este doar o \u00eentrebare care te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 separi dou\u0103 lucruri care, uneori, se amestec\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd \u0219tii ce cau\u021bi, po\u021bi alege mai con\u0219tient ce faci cu dorin\u021ba aceea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate chiar vrei sex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei flirt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei o rela\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate vrei doar s\u0103 te sim\u021bi sexy \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 \u00een care ai nevoie s\u0103-\u021bi aminte\u0219ti c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place de tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Toate aceste lucruri pot exista.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Important este s\u0103 nu la\u0219i dorin\u021ba altcuiva pentru tine s\u0103 devin\u0103 singura dovad\u0103 c\u0103 <strong>meri\u021bi s\u0103 te dore\u0219ti \u0219i tu pe tine<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 a fi dorit\u0103 poate fi pl\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate fi foarte pl\u0103cut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar exist\u0103 o diferen\u021b\u0103 subtil\u0103 \u00eentre <strong>\u201e\u00eemi place c\u0103 m\u0103 dore\u0219ti\u201d<\/strong> \u0219i <strong>\u201eam nevoie s\u0103 m\u0103 dore\u0219ti ca s\u0103 m\u0103 simt bine cu mine\u201d<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar diferen\u021ba aceea poate schimba mult felul \u00een care alegem oamenii, sexul, flirtul \u0219i chiar felul \u00een care ne privim propriul corp..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Erosia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despre validare, aten\u021bie, flirt \u0219i diferen\u021ba dintre \u201e\u00eel vreau pe el\u201d \u0219i \u201e\u00eemi place s\u0103 m\u0103 simt dorit\u0103\u201d Ai avut o zi lung\u0103, ai r\u0103spuns la prea multe mesaje, ai muncit, ai f\u0103cut cump\u0103r\u0103turi, ai rezolvat lucruri \u0219i, la final, tot ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti este s\u0103 faci un du\u0219, s\u0103 te bagi \u00een pat \u0219i 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