{"id":6518,"date":"2026-10-06T07:36:59","date_gmt":"2026-10-06T07:36:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/?p=6518"},"modified":"2026-10-06T07:36:59","modified_gmt":"2026-10-06T07:36:59","slug":"cand-iti-doresti-sex-dar-nu-vrei-o-relatie-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/cand-iti-doresti-sex-dar-nu-vrei-o-relatie-2\/","title":{"rendered":"De ce ne atrag uneori oamenii care nu ne fac bine?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Despre chimie, atrac\u021bie \u0219i diferen\u021ba dintre \u201em\u0103 atrage\u201d \u0219i \u201e\u00eemi face bine\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 oameni pe care \u00eei \u00eent\u00e2lnim \u0219i despre care \u0219tim, aproape din primele minute, c\u0103 nu sunt tocmai o idee bun\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate sunt indisponibili emo\u021bional. Poate apar \u0219i dispar. Poate spun exact lucrurile pe care vrem s\u0103 le auzim, dar nu sunt niciodat\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat acolo. Poate au un stil de via\u021b\u0103 care nu se potrive\u0219te deloc cu al nostru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i totu\u0219i\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>ne atrag.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"771\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Luchador-in-Action-771x1024.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6515\" srcset=\"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Luchador-in-Action-771x1024.png 771w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Luchador-in-Action-226x300.png 226w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Luchador-in-Action-9x12.png 9w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Luchador-in-Action-768x1019.png 768w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Luchador-in-Action-600x796.png 600w, https:\/\/erosia.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/Luchador-in-Action.png 904w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 771px) 100vw, 771px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori foarte tare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00cen acela\u0219i timp, putem \u00eent\u00e2lni oameni calmi, aten\u021bi, disponibili \u0219i consecven\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDe ce nu simt nimic?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aici apare una dintre cele mai interesante confuzii din zona rela\u021biilor \u0219i a sexualit\u0103\u021bii:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>atrac\u021bia \u0219i compatibilitatea nu sunt acela\u0219i lucru.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 dore\u0219ti foarte mult pe cineva care nu \u00ee\u021bi face bine. Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai o chimie sexual\u0103 incredibil\u0103 cu cineva cu care, \u00een rest, nu ai putea construi o rela\u021bie s\u0103n\u0103toas\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 este ceva \u00een neregul\u0103 cu tine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00censeamn\u0103 doar c\u0103 dorin\u021ba nu este \u00eentotdeauna ra\u021bional\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>C\u00e2nd \u201echimia\u201d vine \u0219i din incertitudine<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori numim chimie ceea ce este, de fapt, o combina\u021bie de atrac\u021bie, anticipare \u0219i nesiguran\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi scrie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi dispare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Revine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u021bi acord\u0103 foarte mult\u0103 aten\u021bie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apoi devine distant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i \u00eencepi s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la el din ce \u00een ce mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOare ce simte?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOare de ce nu mi-a r\u0103spuns?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOare m\u0103 place?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eOare o s\u0103 m\u0103 caute?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fiecare mesaj \u00ee\u021bi poate ridica moralul, iar fiecare perioad\u0103 de t\u0103cere poate produce nelini\u0219te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i tocmai aceast\u0103 alternan\u021b\u0103 poate face ca persoana respectiv\u0103 s\u0103 ocupe foarte mult spa\u021biu \u00een mintea ta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ajungem s\u0103 spunem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eNu am mai sim\u021bit niciodat\u0103 o asemenea chimie.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate chiar este chimie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar poate este \u0219i incertitudine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar uneori incertitudinea ne \u021bine mai preocupate de cineva dec\u00e2t o rela\u021bie calm\u0103 \u0219i previzibil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>De ce omul disponibil poate p\u0103rea \u201eplictisitor\u201d?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aici apare o situa\u021bie foarte des \u00eent\u00e2lnit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cuno\u0219ti pe cineva care este atent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comunicativ.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Consecvent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Te caut\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00ce\u0219i respect\u0103 cuv\u00e2ntul.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 interpretezi fiecare mesaj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu trebuie s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi unde a disp\u0103rut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i totu\u0219i\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eNu simt sc\u00e2nteia.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori este pur \u0219i simplu adev\u0103rat. Nu exist\u0103 atrac\u021bie \u0219i nu trebuie s\u0103 invent\u0103m una doar pentru c\u0103 omul este \u201ebun\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar alteori merit\u0103 s\u0103 ne \u00eentreb\u0103m ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 pentru noi acea \u201esc\u00e2nteie\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 am fost obi\u0219nuite cu rela\u021bii intense \u0219i imprevizibile, calmul poate p\u0103rea lipsit de pasiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 este lipsit de valoare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci pentru c\u0103 nu ne provoac\u0103 aceea\u0219i stare de alert\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i poate exista o diferen\u021b\u0103 foarte mare \u00eentre:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eNu m\u0103 atrage.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0219i<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eNu m\u0103 face s\u0103 m\u0103 simt nelini\u0219tit\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Familiar nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 neap\u0103rat s\u0103n\u0103tos<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori ne atrage ceea ce ne este familiar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dac\u0103 ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat, de-a lungul timpului, c\u0103 pentru a primi aten\u021bie trebuie s\u0103 faci efort, s\u0103 a\u0219tep\u021bi, s\u0103 demonstrezi sau s\u0103 fii suficient de interesant\u0103 pentru ca cineva s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, este posibil ca acest tip de dinamic\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi par\u0103 cunoscut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu neap\u0103rat bun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doar cunoscut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar c\u00e2nd apare cineva care este prezent, clar \u0219i disponibil, poate ap\u0103rea o senza\u021bie ciudat\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eUnde este provocarea?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu pentru c\u0103 avem nevoie de suferin\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci pentru c\u0103 ceea ce ne este familiar poate fi confundat cu ceea ce ne este potrivit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">De aceea, uneori merit\u0103 s\u0103 facem diferen\u021ba \u00eentre:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cemi este familiar.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0219i<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cemi face bine.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Atrac\u021bia nu este un certificat de compatibilitate<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi fi foarte atras\u0103 de cineva cu care nu ai aproape nimic \u00een comun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi avea o chimie sexual\u0103 extraordinar\u0103 cu cineva care nu este disponibil emo\u021bional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti constant la cineva care nu \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 siguran\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 ai o conexiune fizic\u0103 puternic\u0103 cu cineva care nu \u00ee\u021bi respect\u0103 limitele.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atrac\u021bia ne spune ceva important:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cemi place aceast\u0103 persoan\u0103.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu ne spune automat:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eEste potrivit\u0103 pentru mine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eM\u0103 va trata bine.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u00ce\u0219i dore\u0219te acelea\u0219i lucruri.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eEste disponibil\u0103 emo\u021bional.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u00cemi va respecta limitele.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eEste capabil\u0103 s\u0103 construiasc\u0103 ceva s\u0103n\u0103tos.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atrac\u021bia este un semnal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Nu este un verdict.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u0218i sexul poate face diferen\u021ba \u0219i mai greu de v\u0103zut<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd exist\u0103 o chimie sexual\u0103 foarte puternic\u0103, este u\u0219or s\u0103 presupunem c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 existe \u0219i ceva mai profund.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eSexul dintre noi este incredibil. Sigur \u00eenseamn\u0103 ceva.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate \u00eenseamn\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar sexul bun nu garanteaz\u0103 compatibilitatea emo\u021bional\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uneori, tocmai sexul foarte bun ne face s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie care, \u00een rest, nu ne ofer\u0103 ceea ce avem nevoie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ne spunem:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePoate se va schimba.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePoate, dac\u0103 m\u0103 cunoa\u0219te mai bine, va deveni mai disponibil.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201ePoate ceea ce avem noi este special.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i astfel putem ajunge s\u0103 folosim sexul ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 exist\u0103 o rela\u021bie, c\u00e2nd poate exist\u0103, de fapt, o atrac\u021bie foarte puternic\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u201eDar dac\u0103 \u00eel vreau at\u00e2t de tare, sigur \u00eenseamn\u0103 ceva\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sigur c\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 ceva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00censeamn\u0103 c\u0103 \u00eel dore\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dar nu trebuie s\u0103 \u00eensemne mai mult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu orice dorin\u021b\u0103 trebuie transformat\u0103 \u00eentr-o poveste de dragoste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu orice atrac\u021bie trebuie urm\u0103rit\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu orice chimie trebuie consumat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 spui:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eM\u0103 atrage foarte tare.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0219i, \u00een acela\u0219i timp:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eNu cred c\u0103 omul acesta \u00eemi face bine.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Cele dou\u0103 lucruri pot fi adev\u0103rate simultan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate c\u0103 una dintre formele maturit\u0103\u021bii emo\u021bionale este tocmai capacitatea de a recunoa\u0219te o dorin\u021b\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u021bi c\u0103 trebuie neap\u0103rat s\u0103 o urmezi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>De ce ne atrage \u201eprovocarea\u201d?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Exist\u0103 \u0219i o anumit\u0103 romantizare a oamenilor greu de ob\u021binut.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eCu mine va fi diferit.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201e\u00cen spatele comportamentului lui este un om sensibil.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eAre nevoie doar de cineva care s\u0103-l \u00een\u021beleag\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, dintr-o dat\u0103, rela\u021bia devine un proiect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu mai este doar despre cine este omul \u00een prezent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Este despre cine <strong>ar putea deveni<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i aici apare o \u00eentrebare foarte bun\u0103:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u00cemi place omul care este sau m\u0103 atrage posibilitatea omului care ar putea deveni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 uneori ne \u00eendr\u0103gostim de poten\u021bial.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar poten\u021bialul nu poate \u021bine loc de comportament.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Nu trebuie s\u0103 alegem \u00eentre pasiune \u0219i siguran\u021b\u0103<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aici merit\u0103 s\u0103 facem o precizare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 alegem automat persoana \u201ecuminte\u201d doar pentru c\u0103 este disponibil\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Atrac\u021bia conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chimia conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dorin\u021ba conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sexul bun conteaz\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu vrem o rela\u021bie \u00een care doar bif\u0103m criterii de compatibilitate ca \u00eentr-un tabel Excel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ideea este alta:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>nu trebuie s\u0103 alegem \u00eentre pasiune \u0219i siguran\u021b\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un om poate fi \u0219i atr\u0103g\u0103tor, \u0219i interesant, \u0219i sexy, \u0219i disponibil emo\u021bional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Doar c\u0103 poate dura ceva timp p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m c\u0103 intensitatea nu este singura form\u0103 de pasiune.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Cum \u00ee\u021bi dai seama c\u0103 atrac\u021bia te trage \u00eentr-o direc\u021bie care nu \u00ee\u021bi face bine?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate observi c\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la persoana respectiv\u0103 mai ales atunci c\u00e2nd este distant\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 te sim\u021bi foarte bine c\u00e2nd prime\u0219ti aten\u021bie \u0219i foarte prost c\u00e2nd nu o prime\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 petreci mai mult timp analiz\u00e2nd comportamentul lui dec\u00e2t bucur\u00e2ndu-te de ceea ce ave\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 justifici constant lucruri care te r\u0103nesc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u0103 spui \u201eda, dar\u2026\u201d foarte des.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDa, nu este disponibil, <strong>dar<\/strong>\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDa, dispare, <strong>dar<\/strong>\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDa, nu \u0219tie ce vrea, <strong>dar<\/strong>\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201eDa, nu \u00eemi ofer\u0103 ceea ce am nevoie, <strong>dar<\/strong> sexul este incredibil.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">C\u00e2nd rela\u021bia devine o colec\u021bie de explica\u021bii pentru comportamentul celuilalt, poate merit\u0103 s\u0103 faci un pas \u00een spate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu ca s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi dac\u0103 \u00eel dore\u0219ti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Probabil \u0219tii deja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cemi place felul \u00een care m\u0103 simt \u00een aceast\u0103 rela\u021bie?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Uneori cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos lucru este s\u0103 nu urmezi atrac\u021bia<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nu orice dorin\u021b\u0103 trebuie consumat\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 reprimare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00censeamn\u0103 alegere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 recuno\u0219ti c\u0103 cineva te atrage \u0219i s\u0103 alegi s\u0103 nu intri \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie cu el.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 te bucuri de chimie f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 construie\u0219ti o via\u021b\u0103 \u00een jurul ei.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Po\u021bi s\u0103 spui:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201e\u00cemi place foarte mult de omul acesta, dar nu \u00eemi place ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu mine c\u00e2nd sunt cu el.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i aceasta este o informa\u021bie important\u0103.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 uneori nu persoana este problema.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ci combina\u021bia dintre persoan\u0103 \u0219i ceea ce activeaz\u0103 \u00een noi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>\u00centrebarea pe care merit\u0103 s\u0103 o p\u0103strezi<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Data viitoare c\u00e2nd cineva te atrage foarte tare, nu te \u00eentreba doar:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eC\u00e2t de mult \u00eel vreau?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00centreab\u0103-te \u0219i:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eCum m\u0103 simt l\u00e2ng\u0103 el?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0103 simt lini\u0219tit\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0103 simt respectat\u0103?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0103 simt liber\u0103 s\u0103 spun nu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u0103 simt dorit\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 simt c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 demonstrez ceva?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pot fi eu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pot spune ce am nevoie?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pot s\u0103 m\u0103 bucur de sex f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb permanent ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 pentru el?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pentru c\u0103 poate maturitatea \u00een iubire nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 nu mai sim\u021bi atrac\u021bie pentru oamenii complica\u021bi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Poate \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 po\u021bi sim\u021bi atrac\u021bia <strong>f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 o confunzi cu compatibilitatea<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0103 po\u021bi spune:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eDa, m\u0103 atrage.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, \u00een aceea\u0219i propozi\u021bie:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>\u201eDar nu cred c\u0103 \u00eemi face bine.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Iar uneori, aceasta poate fi una dintre cele mai sexy forme de luciditate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0218i, poate, de aici \u00eencepe \u0219i o alt\u0103 form\u0103 de explorare: aceea \u00een care nu mai a\u0219tep\u021bi ca o alt\u0103 persoan\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi confirme ce \u00ee\u021bi place, ci \u00eencepi s\u0103 fii curioas\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de propriul corp \u0219i propria pl\u0103cere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Pentru c\u0103 uneori cel mai interesant lucru pe care \u00eel po\u021bi descoperi nu este dac\u0103 te dore\u0219te cineva, ci ce te face pe tine s\u0103 te sim\u021bi bine.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div style=\"height:30px\" aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-spacer\"><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Erosia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despre chimie, atrac\u021bie \u0219i diferen\u021ba dintre \u201em\u0103 atrage\u201d \u0219i \u201e\u00eemi face bine\u201d Exist\u0103 oameni pe care \u00eei \u00eent\u00e2lnim \u0219i despre care \u0219tim, aproape din primele minute, c\u0103 nu sunt tocmai o idee bun\u0103. Poate sunt indisponibili emo\u021bional. Poate apar \u0219i dispar. Poate spun exact lucrurile pe care vrem s\u0103 le auzim, dar nu sunt niciodat\u0103 [&hellip;]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[1181,1221,1204,53,466,1195,1220,1209,1203,50,465,1180,458,464],"class_list":["post-6518","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog","tag-autocunoastere","tag-cum-alegem-lubrifiantul","tag-filmele-ne-am-mintit-despre-relatii","tag-intimitate","tag-intimitatea-si-bunastare-emotionalaa","tag-limite-in-intimitate","tag-lubrifiantul","tag-overthinking-in-relatii","tag-relatii","tag-ritual-senzual","tag-sanatate-mentala","tag-selfcare","tag-senzualitate","tag-sexul-si-sanatatea"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6518","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6518"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6518\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6519,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6518\/revisions\/6519"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6518"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6518"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/erosia.ro\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6518"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}